Tuesday, June 27, 2017

Quote: Groundless Fears

"...many of God’s people are constantly under apprehensions of calamities which will never occur to them, and they suffer far more in merely dreading them than they would have to endure if they actually came upon them. In their imagination, there are rivers in their way, and they are anxious to know how they shall wade through them, or swim across them. There are no such rivers in existence, but they are agitated and distressed about them. An old proverb says, “Don’t cross the bridge till you come to it;” but these timid people are continually crossing bridges that only exist in their foolish fancies. They stab themselves with imaginary daggers, they starve themselves in imaginary famines, and even bury themselves in imaginary graves. We are such strange creatures that we probably suffer more under blows which never fall upon us than we do under those which do actually come. The rod of God does not strike us as sharply as the rod of our own imagination does; our groundless fears are our chief tormentors, and when we are able to abolish our self-inflictions, all the worries of the world become light and easy. However, it is a pity that Christians who have the gift of faith in Christ given to them, should fall into so guilty and at the same time so painful a habit as this of fearing the oppressor who does not come, and who never will come."

~Needless Fears, sermon #3098 by Charles H. Spurgeon

Video for full sermon below. This quote above starts at 4:10.

Tuesday, May 23, 2017

And the winner is.......

Congratulations, Meg! You will be receiving a free copy of Amanda Hage's new book, Persistence. Enjoy!

Tuesday, May 16, 2017

New Books by Amanda Grace Hage (and giveaway!!)

A few years ago, I wrote a post about a new author, Amanda Hage. Amanda's desire is to provide wholesome reading for the whole family from a Biblical worldview. She has recently released three new books!

Now Available by
Amanda Grace Hage

In disgrace, a Jewish family moves from high society on the East coast to run a cattle ranch in Wyoming Territory. In radical circumstances of a land dispute and the harsh frontier, is there any peace to be found?
Ages 12 and up

Adventure Packed
Accurate Historical Detail
Foreign Language Exposure

Set in 1845 during the Mexican-American War, a Mexican girl is forced to leave the convent she grew up in and finds solace in the most unlikely place. A Texas Ranger is caught up in more than one battle for ultimate surrender. 
Ages 12 and up

Contact for ordering: amandahage@outlook.com.

Amanda has graciously agreed to give away a copy of Persistence to one of our blog readers! To enter the contest, comment below with the title your favorite book(s). (Yes, you can list more than one favorite.)

Update: Please click the "notify me" box when you post your comment so I can let you know if you won!  

Contest ends on Tuesday, May 23 at 6:00 CST. Winner will be randomly chosen.

Discipleship Resources for Daughters

Recently, a friend asked me for book recommendations for her daughter. Of course, at the moment, I could only remember a couple. But afterward, more ideas came! So I thought it would benefit me create a blog post to save my ideas.

I have three girls and they are all different. I won't use all of these resources for all of them. So in that sense, this is not a one-size-fits-all list. Every girl is different in temperament, personality, learning style, and what they need. I do have favorites, though, and will attempt to use them with each girl. I've marked them with an asterisk.

Available free online

*Martha Peace audio teaching on hurt feelings. Okay, we all need this one ladies. Highly recommended!

*Living by the Book by Howard Hendricks video series (or the book listed below depending on how they learn best)

*Gospel in Context by Stuart Scott pdf- I worked through this document with all three girls over the course of several weeks. We looked up verses (not all, but most) and discussed.

*Biblical-Decision Making by Stuart Scott, handout with audio or video

Generally, I would have my daughter read the book and then we would informally discuss it. I'm not a fan of discussion questions although they can be a helpful launching pad.

A Faith to Grow On - John MacArthur

Before You Meet Prince Charming by Sarah Mally

A Young Woman After God's Own Heart by Elisabeth George

*Living by the Book by Howard Hendricks (or the video series listed above depending on how they learn best)

*Just Do Something: A Liberating Approach to Finding God's Will by Kevin DeYoung

His Word in My Heart by Janet Pope

True Beauty by Carolyn Mahaney and Nicole Whitacre

Girl Talk by Carolyn Mahaney and Nicole Whitacre

Stepping Heavenward by Elizabeth Prentiss

*Do Hard Things by Alex Harris and Brett Harris

Feminine Appeal by Carolyn Mahaney

*Growing Up Christian by Karl Graustein

Don't Waste Your Life by John Piper

Books by Elisabeth Elliot, specifically Passion and Purity and Let Me Be A Women

Monday, December 19, 2016

Missionary Book: Give Me This Mountain

Helen Roseveare (1925-2016) was a missionary doctor who served the Lord in the Belgian Congo. Give Me This Mountain is her story.  It is not easy to read because of the persecutions that she faced, but her desire to give glory to God despite the difficulties should be an encouragement to all. I encourage you to read this book.

Justin Taylor, from the Gospel Coalition, has written a short summary of her story here, including several quotes from her.

And if you don't read the book, at least watch the following videos (not something you will hear from me often!).

Wednesday, December 14, 2016

Review: The Innkeeper of Ivy Hill

I have always found Julie Klassen to be a delightful author. Her books are well-written stories set in the Regency period, thoroughly researched, always with a touch of romance and mystery. 

And so, based on the author's previous books, I was excited to read and review The Innkeeper of Ivy Hills. Unfortunately, I did not enjoy the book and finished only out of duty.

From the publisher:
The lifeblood of the Wiltshire village of Ivy Hill is its coaching inn, The Bell. But when the innkeeper dies suddenly, his genteel wife, Jane Bell, becomes the reluctant owner. Jane has no notion of how to run a business. However, with the town's livelihood at stake and a large loan due, she must find a way to bring new life to the inn. 
Despite their strained relationship, Jane turns to her resentful mother-in-law, Thora, for help. Formerly mistress of The Bell, Thora is struggling to find her place in the world. As she and Jane work together, they form a measure of trust, and Thora's wounded heart begins to heal. When she encounters two men from her past, she sees them--and her future--in a different light.
With pressure mounting from the bank, Jane employs innovative methods to turn the inn around, and puzzles over the intentions of several men who seem to have a vested interest in the place. Will her efforts be enough to save The Bell? And will Thora embrace the possibility of a second chance at love?
The characters in the book were flat and unlikeable. Jane was apathetic, Thora was critical, and Rachel was indecisive. Unfortunately, there were no redeeming qualities to these characters that made me want to forgive their shortcomings and cheer for them.  

There were many characters and storylines introduced. It took me at least a third of the book to sort everyone out and determine which characters were even important.  And many storylines were started, but not finished. This book is the first in a new series, and I'm assuming that many characters will be fleshed out and storylines continued in upcoming books. The storylines which were finished in this book- if Jane would save the Bell and if Thora would have a second chance at love - were anticlimactic.

I still appreciate Julie Klassen's writing style, but in this novel the characters and storyline failed to deliver.

I received this book free from the publisher via NetGallery in exchange for an honest review.

Tuesday, December 6, 2016

Review: The Biblical Counseling Guide for Women

Recently, my church went through a series on pastoral counseling from Master's Seminary that is available for free on YouTube. It is essentially biblical counseling taught to pastors, but applicable to everyone. It was wonderful, and although at times it was a little dense with information, I highly recommend it.

When I saw The Biblical Counseling Guide for Women by John D. Street Jr. and Janie Street available for review, I was excited because it fit in exactly with what I had just learned!

First, what is biblical counseling? Or, what is the goal? According to the book,
"In short, it is to help a counselee live a life of obedience and faith, and thus to be more Christlike (John 6:35-40). This is accomplished by living out the implications of the gospel in the midst of your problems, seeking to bring all of your life under the authority of the Lord Jesus Christ and His Word. The goal is not simply a short-sighted attempt to get a woman out of her problems, even though, when a person follows Christ's admonitions, her problems will often eventually be resolved."
(Lest you balk a the end of the last sentence, it does go on to say, "However, some problems will not go away, even after you have faithfully obeyed Christ." You'll have to buy the book to read the rest.)

This book is not a handbook filled with charts and lists of Bible verses. That's not to say that the information isn't there, but it is in story form.  Each chapter details the story of a woman and the sin with which she is struggling. It works through the entire process, often starting at a point before she realizes that she needs help. It is essentially a case study on various issues that incorporates biblical counseling principles and applications. It addresses the most common features of each issue but is not meant to be comprehensive.  

The chapters included are:
  • Anger
  • Anxiety
  • Appearance
  • Bitterness
  • Borderline Personality Disorder
  • Chemical Abuse
  • Depression
  • Eating Disorder: Anorexia
  • Grief
  • Guilt
  • Marital Unfaithfulness: Adultery
  • Obsessive Compulsive Disorder
  • Panic Attacks
  • Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder
  • Schizophrenia
  • Transgenderism
  • Victim of Abuse

Now, I like charts. A lot. And I felt a little deflated when I realized they weren't there. But, I realized, the benefit of this approach is that I need to read and assimilate the material instead of just referencing it. In other words, in order to use it, I need to own it. I can't take a shortcut and flip to a chart. Need a verse on anxiety? Tsk, tsk...read the chapter, study the verses and context - no shortcuts!

One of the features that the book contains to help you own the information are questions for discussion. Here are a couple of samples from the chapter on anxiety:

  1. Many people make excuses for ongoing sin, saying that some sins cannot be overcome, that they are just a part of who we are. Read Philippians 4:4-9 and 2 Timothy 6:16-17. Write down the reasons why these excuses cannot be true.
  2. What aspects of God's character are under attack when we fail to put off sinful anxiety?
As you can see, these questions will be very helpful in helping you understand the material.

I highly recommend this book for every woman. Not only will this help prepare you to biblically counsel a friend, but it will also give you compassion and understanding for those that struggle with sins that you don't. 

Disclaimer: I received this ebook free from the publisher.

Friday, December 2, 2016

Help! My Friend Is Reading a Dangerous Book

There are a lot of spiritually dangerous books. Generally, they are the current best-sellers. In this video, Noel Piper and Gloria Furman offer some great advice when your friend is reading one.
Help! My Friend Is Reading a Dangerous Book from The Gospel Coalition on Vimeo.

Thursday, December 1, 2016

Quote: Difficulties

"God shields us from most of the things we fear, but when He chooses not to shield us, He unfailingly allots grace in the measure needed.  It is for us to choose to receive or refuse it. Our joy or our misery will depend on that choice."

Secure in the Everlasting Arms  -     By: Elisabeth Elliot
"When we try to meet difficulties prematurely we have neither the light nor the strength for them yet. 'As thy days so shall thy strength be' was Moses' blessing for Asher - in other words, your strength will equal your days."

Elisabeth Elliot


Wednesday, November 30, 2016

What I'm Reading

Conscience: What It Is, How to Train It, and Loving Those Who Differ
by Andrew Naselli and J.D. Crowley

Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions
by Gregory Koukl

Core Christianity
By Michaela Horton

Glimpses of Grace
by Gloria Furman

Be Still, My Soul
edited by Nancy Guthrie

Being There
by David Furman

By G.K. Chesterton

And several fiction books on my kindle. :-)

Why so many books at one time?
I'm a proponent of reading non-fiction books slowly in order to absorb and contemplate. I only read a chapter, sometimes only a section, at a time. And I carve out time to just think about it.